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My Top 10 Pros & Cons for Getting Into a Relationship (as a Woman)

Ahhhh, relationships. That most fraught territory in the realm of human experience. That place where we crash and burn, where we are lifted up into a bliss and connection beyond our conscious mind’s capacity … and where we are smashed into the earth with a velocity that often leaves us bloody and broken, whimpering into […]

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That Time I Accidentally Got On Tinder, Then Realized I Hate Everything About It

This past weekend, I got back on Tinder. I had taken a just-under-2-year hiatus. Now, to be clear, I don’t really have anything against Tinder. In fact, I had a very nice lay not long before I got off of it. We had epic hotel sex and I had no complaints. I even keep in […]

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5 Ways I Want to Feel With My Future Man

[Photo by Bryan Brenneman] This is an edgy piece for me to write right now. First, because I feel self-conscious sharing it, as though I’m afraid someone will call me selfish or ungrateful or unrealistic for naming what I truly want. Second, because I’m not even sure I want to be in a relationship at […]

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My Biggest Fear When it Comes to Getting Into Another Relationship

I say I want a relationship, and I do. I’ve never had a truly healthy one and I’d really like live inside one, to know what it feels like, to grasp the joy and meaning of it, the growth and intimacy. Given my real and true longing for this, it’s a little puzzling that I’ve never had […]

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I Surveyed Over 1,000 People About Dating Problems. Here’s What They Said

[Photo credit: Cristina Souza] I’m a member of a beach cleanup crew. We meet regularly. There is a cute guy on this crew, and a few weeks ago, we got to talking a little bit. When I got home that day, I saw that he’d friended me on Facebook. He has no girl in his […]

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The Secret Relationship Killer No One is Talking About

I broke up with my last boyfriend because of sex. I didn’t tell him that, of course. I told him other things, things that were also true. So it’s not that I lied, but I didn’t share the full truth. I didn’t tell him the full story for the same way a lot of people […]

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I Really Love That He Did This After Our Date

There is something deliciously, marvelously, exquisitely sexy about a man who pursues. I met a guy at a party recently who Friended me that night on Facebook. He hit me up the next day, asking how I was, etc., and we chatted for a day or two before he asked for my number. It flowed […]

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Survey Results: Over One Thousand People Weigh in About Sex, Dating & Relationships

[Photo credit: Tony Fischer] About a year ago, I wrote a piece called My Top 3 Sex Problems As A Woman. I did it to promote transparency and openness. I did it because I think we should talk about sex more, and more honestly. I did it because the better we feel about our sexuality, […]

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The Man I Really Want, Part I

I was on a second date the other day, when my date said something that almost knocked me to my knees. We were at a gallery opening, the kind of event less about the art itself than the scene: free wine and cheese, a DJ spinning trendy, Euro-trash EDM, and enough goodlooking people to keep […]

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Why Art Sucks

A guy friend of mine recently made a comment about one of my articles recently that really, really pissed me off. He said that in calling myself ‘moderately attractive’ at the beginning of Ten Things NOT To Do While Hitting On Me, I myself was breaking not one, but two of my own rules within […]

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