The Most Powerful Moment I’ve Ever Had with a Man.

I coach men on how to succeed with women. As part of this work, I’ve been a female facilitator for the Authentic Man Program, a course designed, in part, to help men understand and move past issues they may have with women, whether that’s sexual, relational, or emotional. I will never forget one particular moment at […]

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10 Sexy Things About Men.

I love men. I love how they move, how they sit, how they kiss. I love how they play air guitar, quote Wedding Crashers, man the grill and roughhouse together. I love to hear them bitch about their sports team losing, observe them trying (and failing) to be subtle when checking me out, or watch them wrestle […]

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3 Sex Problems as a Woman.

Let me start this out by making a couple wild generalizations about sex. First, we’re all having it. Of course, that’s not actually true; some of us haven’t had it yet, others are going through a drought and some choose not to have it at all. But in general, it’s a widespread phenomenon. Which is good, […]

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A Woman’s Biggest Fear

Yep, this is one of those times I make a wild generalization that I end up getting some flak for but more of the time, people agree with me. I’m seeing someone. He’s great. Kind, funny, takes the lead, and the sex is great. It’s wonderful. Normally, we get together and there’s no drama. It’s […]

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Meetup just shut down my group. I’m a little scared about why

Sometimes working in the field of sexuality sucks. I’m a woman coach, and I help men understand women better. I help them get comfortable with their own sexuality and support women’s sexuality in a way that feels safe and inviting. I teach them how to approach women respectfully and directly, without being creepy. Ultimately, I […]

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Are You Sexually Frustrated, Too? Let’s Talk About It

Photo credit: Stephen Acuna So there’s this thing that happens when spring hits: Lots of people want to have sex. This is standard. It’s natural. As the sun starts to get brighter, the days longer, and spaghetti straps reappear, people get, well … randy. The fact is, with all the societal and cultural weirdness – […]

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My Top 10 Pros & Cons for Getting Into a Relationship (as a Woman)

Ahhhh, relationships. That most fraught territory in the realm of human experience. That place where we crash and burn, where we are lifted up into a bliss and connection beyond our conscious mind’s capacity … and where we are smashed into the earth with a velocity that often leaves us bloody and broken, whimpering into […]

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That Time I Accidentally Got On Tinder, Then Realized I Hate Everything About It

This past weekend, I got back on Tinder. I had taken a just-under-2-year hiatus. Now, to be clear, I don’t really have anything against Tinder. In fact, I had a very nice lay not long before I got off of it. We had epic hotel sex and I had no complaints. I even keep in […]

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5 Ways I Want to Feel With My Future Man

[Photo by Bryan Brenneman] This is an edgy piece for me to write right now. First, because I feel self-conscious sharing it, as though I’m afraid someone will call me selfish or ungrateful or unrealistic for naming what I truly want. Second, because I’m not even sure I want to be in a relationship at […]

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My Biggest Fear When it Comes to Getting Into Another Relationship

I say I want a relationship, and I do. I’ve never had a truly healthy one and I’d really like live inside one, to know what it feels like, to grasp the joy and meaning of it, the growth and intimacy. Given my real and true longing for this, it’s a little puzzling that I’ve never had […]

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