The Man I Really Want, Part I

by Vixen on March 24, 2014

I was on a second date the other day, when my date said something that almost knocked me to my knees. We were at a gallery opening, the kind of event less about the art itself than the scene: free wine and cheese, a DJ spinning trendy, Euro-trash EDM, and enough goodlooking people to keep […]

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Why Art Sucks

by Vixen on November 10, 2013

A guy friend of mine recently made a comment about one of my articles recently that really, really pissed me off. He said that in calling myself ‘moderately attractive’ at the beginning of Ten Things NOT To Do While Hitting On Me, I myself was breaking not one, but two of my own rules within […]


Vixen Manifesto (the original)

August 30, 2013

Vixen Manifesto 1. It is possible for every single person alive to have amazing, passionate, mind-altering sex. In fact, as human beings it is not only possible, it is our birthright. 2. Everyone should have a relationship with her/his sexuality completely separate from any other (romantic or otherwise). Your sexuality doesn’t depend on anyone else, […]

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Ten Things NOT to Do When I’m Being a Bitch

August 22, 2013

Women don’t come with a manual. If they did, men wouldn’t need man caves. The truth is, part of what makes women appealing can also make them terrifying. Their emotional volatility is either fascinating or distressing, depending on both how it’s expressed, yes – but also how it’s taken. Every woman’s got her moods. Most […]

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Ten Things He Loves About Women (That Have Nothing To Do With Looks)

June 16, 2013

Many of you read my piece, Ten Things I Find Sexy About Men (That Have Nothing to Do With Looks). One of you wanted to reply. Without further ado, here is a guest piece by my good friend and reader, Jon Mimisy:   “Ten Things I Find Sexy About Women (That Have Nothing To Do […]

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10 Things To Avoid Doing When Hitting On Me

April 26, 2013

Being a moderately attractive young woman, I get hit on a fair amount, and I see some of the same mistakes being made by men over and over. In an effort to spare both you, my fine male friends (not to mention myself), I’m going to break it down for you. Because chances are, right now […]

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Why I Said, “We Shouldn’t Date.”

January 27, 2013

I have a little crush on someone I shouldn’t. As in, the circumstances are such that we really shouldn’t be together … he dated someone close to me and it just wouldn’t be cool unless we got serious. But how is one supposed to know that before something has even started? It’s the classic it-would-really-suck-for-a-whole-lot-of-people-if-we-didn’t-work-out […]

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How NOT To Have Me Trust You

January 24, 2013

So there’s this guy I was seeing – we’ll call him Mickey. (Seriously – why do I always pick the most retarded names for the pseudonyms? I literally spend five minutes and come up blank. If anyone has a list of men’s names that don’t suck but also aren’t stupid or boring, please let me […]

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Well, Look At That

January 18, 2013

It’s OK to look.   I wouldn’t wear it if I   didn’t want you to    

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Just Be It

January 17, 2013

I don’t want you to   be who you’re not. Just be who   I want you to be     photo by Michael Boston

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