Recent Episodes…
136: GuyTalk: Dating after divorce
Getting a divorce can be both freeing and terrifying at the same time. Who you are post-relationship? How do you ...
135: How being ‘disrespectful’ could help your sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
As a sex researcher, I've repeatedly noticed a trend when men share with me about their love lives: Some men ...
DM 134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why (ft. Jason Lange)
If you've ever felt like you're constantly the one giving in a relationship and never receiving, this is ...
133: GirlTalk: Masturbation!
How do girls and women learn to masturbate? How does that differ from boys, and how does that then inform the ...
132: What if she’s not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)
If you've ever wished your partner would open up more or grow in a certain area (i.e. sexual openness or ...
131: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This dynamic could be why (ft. Shana James)
There's a frequent pattern in male/female relationships where he feels like she wants him to read her mind, ...
130: GirlTalk: The best sex we’ve ever had 🙂
I'm talkin' about that good good lovin': that can't-wait-to-have-you, make-the-mattress-jump, ...
129: Setting boundaries with family. ‘Tis the season! (ft. Violet Lange)
The number one indicator of whether a marriage will succeed or fail is not about the quality of the match or ...
128: Feel like you’re walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
Ever been in a relationship where little things set your partner off? Ever gotten the silent treatment (or had sex ...
DM 126: If you don’t want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? (ft. Jason Lange)
A lot of men feel like they're "supposed" to want to bang every woman they possibly can, and that if a woman makes ...
124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back? (ft. Jason Lange)
Ever felt like the women you really want don't want you back? It's exceedingly frustrating (and not good ...
123: The best therapy to help your sex & love life (might not be what you think) (ft. Z Zoccolante)
If you've ever repeated patterns in your sex, dating, or relationship life, you know how frustrating it can ...
121: A brilliant & inexpensive alternative to couples therapy! (ft. Mark & Ayesha)
When it comes to talking openly about sex and relationship, couples are often strangely isolated. You don't ...
120: What if you’re still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? (ft. Jason Lange)
Will she still want to have sex with you if you're still a virgin at 26 years old (or 29, 34 or older)? What ...
119: GirlTalk: Blowjobs! What we like and don’t like in oral sex on men
Do you give blow jobs at Da Club, during casual sex, or only in a committed relationship? Do you prefer to spit or ...
118: GirlTalk: Cheating. We get personal.
Cheating is complicated. The effect of sex with someone outside your relationship (or emotional cheating in some ...
117: What does it look like for *women* to "do the work"? (ft. Violet Lange)
Men aren't the only ones who struggle with dating, relationships, and sex. Women of all ages, including those ...
116: Dating during COVID-19: how does it work? (ft. Violet Lange)
Sex, dating, and relationships (including marriages) have all been affected by the coronavirus pandemic of ...
115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
Is it easier for men or women to get into committed relationships? What about getting a first or second date, ...
114: GirlTalk: The 1 relationship skill to rule them all
A lot of dating relationships start out in the honeymoon phase -- lots of sex; fun, engaging dates; fantastic ...
113: The sexiest vacation you can take (ft. Mario Cruz)
It's not always easy to find fun, sex-positive environments where women feel safe to be fully expressed and ...
112: How quitting porn supercharged this man’s sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
Porn is a multi-billion dollar industry, and porn addiction has a massive impact on our sex, dating, and ...
111: GuyTalk: 3 black men talk sex, dating & relationships (ft. Jules, Graze, and Ahmad)
What's it like to be a black man in the world of dating and relationships? What role does emotional safety ...
110: GirlTalk: Black girls talk dating (ft. Ivy, Nina, and Amber)
What's it like to be a black woman on dating apps? What does allyship look like in dating and relationships? ...
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